August 26, 2008

FEARS...

One of my greatest fears is that something will happen to one of my girls. I worry that they might get hurt physically. I worry that they might get hurt emotionally. I worry that they will be sad. I worry that they won't have happy memories. Basically, I worry! As a parent, my biggest goal in life is to keep my children safe. How to accomplish that goal, not sure. I can't imagine how it would feel to have one of my children hurt or taken from me. I do know that my heart would be very sad, as it is now.

On 08-18-08 my cousin Kassie and her two boys were driving to school. Just like any other day. A mom can relate: getting kids up & ready early, rushing out the door, hurry/hurry don't want to be late. These are the usual things I'm doing on a school day. And then... a horrible accident. A moment in time that will forever change EVERYONE. Kassie, at age 27 and her son Jerym, age 8 were killed. Her son Jace, age 6, was flown to Primary Children's Hospital. www.kcsg.com/news/local/27091484.html

At that moment, time stopped and things changed for the Pectol & Lee Families. My heart is heavy and sad as I think of the loss of a mother and her children. My love & prayers go to her family! And, my hope, is that my memories & time will make our hearts less sad...

My Uncle Kelle, his daughter Kassie,
and her sons Jerym & Jace

Kassie and her 2-year-old daughter Jazmyn


Brothers: Jerym & Jace

7 comments:

kping said...

T-
I'm so sad for you and your family. I hope that this weekend goes as well as can be expected. I'll be thinking of you.
K

Sandie said...

Even though I already know the story, it still breaks my heart to hear it again. You know we are here for you if you or your family need anything. Good luck this weekend. We will miss you!
Love ya!!!

EMPTY NESTERS said...

My heart aches for the pain and grief that you and your family are feeling. May the Lord bless all of you this weekend and give you the comfort and strength you need. Our prayers and love are with you. Aunt Laurie

Hunsaker Family said...

With such fabulous friends and family, how can my heart stay sad?! Thank you all for your love & support.

Mary Gardner said...

Our sympathy and love to the Pectol and Lee families for this loss; we're thinking of you at this sad time.

Aunt Mary

Heather said...

So Sad... I havent stopped praying for your family since I heard about this. Even reading your post, I got teary. Life is so unfair sometimes, what a horrible loss. I love you, so sorry you are going through this.

jill said...

What a wonderful tribute to wonderful people. Please be careful this weekend and always, I haven't had you very long and I want years and years of memories!
Love ya all much,
Jill H